What a day...

I Came to a realization today that i'm not normal. I'm very different. Dont get me wrong. I'm just sayin, what i find considerate other people find careless. For example, I take cloths out the wash machine. The person who is doing laundry is layin in bed falling asleep. NOW! Would your first instinct be - Person 1: "Oh, So and so is sleep. I'll just see what they need in the dryer and put it in for them." Is that considerate or not? When the response is - Person 2: "UGH! WHY DID YOU TAKE MY STUFF OUT AND PUT YOURS IN?! I JUST WOULDNT DO THAT!"

Whose in the right? Person 1 or 2?

After that i had the biggest head ache. I felt like Dumbo was Kickin me in the head while Mighty Joe Young was sittin on it.

On to other things. People out there in lovers land. If you in love or feel yourself gettin to that point remember this... A Wise man once said:

"I would rather listen to the wispers than hear the screams. Would rather address it now than have it blow later. Would rather be in love than be right. I can be wrong. I will take you as me and not hurt my feelings. I will be one with you and love you as myself. As long as you promise to do the same."

Let me break that down cause i totally agree with this!

I would rather listen to the wispers than hear the screams. Would rather address it now than have it blow later.

I Would rather hear the small stuff and learn from then than wait until it builds into a screen to take action on the issue.

Would rather be in love than be right

I Love you so much that i can accept being wrong if you can. I Love you so much i'm putting my ego and pride aside for the better ment of us and our relationship.

I can be wrong. I will take you as me and not hurt my feelings.

I Accept that we're not perfect BUT! We're in a relationship that could full bloom in marriage. I Love you to the point that hurting you is hurting myself. IF i hurt you. I have wounded me. We are one. I Will love you like i love me and i love me to death! I Will take You as ME and not hurt MY feelings.

I will be one with you and love you as myself. As long as you promise to do the same.

I'm not insecure. But i need to know that i'm not wasting my time with you. I want to be with you and chose you to be with. Respect me. Love me. Treat me as if i was in your shoes. So i can respect you. Love you. And treat you as if your in my shoes. I Love You As Me. Is that not enough?

People... This is the probably each person in any relationship should say to there partner. Dont be afraid to express how you feel. If you do. You dont need to be in that relationship. No one should feel as if they have to walk on egg shells around there partner. Even me. If your partner thinks everythings all good. Open your eyes, Grow a pair, and then open there eyes and let them know that something is off.

I love you like I love me!

TankersonJ